On Setting Boundaries With Family Members

it is OK to set boundaries with your family members.

In fact, it is GOOD to set boundaries with your family members.

Remember, this is YOUR baby.

You get to decide who holds them.

You get to decide what family gatherings you attend.

Pro tip: decide ahead of time what you and your partner are comfortable with so you are not caught off guard in the moment.

You can always kindly say, “Thank you, but this event is not going to work with our unpredictable schedule right now” or “We’d prefer to keep the baby close today” or “You are welcome to hold the baby, if you wash your hands first.”